Couples therapy

A Space for Understanding, Connection, and Growth

Couples therapy is a space where we not only address the shared difficulties in the relationship but also explore the individual stories, expectations, and challenges that each person brings to the dynamic. Inspired by humanistic approaches, such as those of the Gottman Institute, Brené Brown and Esther Perel, my goal is to help couples better understand their relationship, strengthen their capacity for connection, and navigate challenges with empathy and clarity.

At the beginning of the therapeutic process, we will explore each person’s life history, what may have hindered their emotional development and what their expectations are about love, intimacy and the relationship, in order to discover what ignites curiosity and desire in the couple, as well as pay attention to the emotional support needs of each member of the relationship.

Following this, we will focus on identifying patterns of interaction that generate conflict and work on developing practical tools to improve communication, manage disagreements, and foster mutual care and respect.

The goal of therapy is to create a safe space where couples can engage in difficult conversations, express their needs honestly, and discover new ways of relating to one another. Beyond simply “solving problems,” the work focuses on strengthening emotional and physical connection while balancing the desire for personal autonomy with the need for mutual connection. During this process, we also work to redefine expectations and roles within the relationship, adapting them to the realities and challenges of modern life.

The sessions follow a hybrid format, meaning they can be conducted both online and in person, depending on the needs and preferences of the couple. The duration and frequency of sessions are flexible, adapting to what each moment requires.

My therapeutic approach does not aim for a single outcome, such as “saving the relationship,” but rather focuses on providing clarity, tools, and a space for joint and individual growth. Whether the goal is to strengthen the relationship, redefine its terms, or move toward a conscious and respectful separation, the therapeutic work is always oriented toward honesty, mutual understanding, and personal growth.

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step

I invite you to get to know me and decide if I could be a good companion on the road.

within Reach

About me and how my practice offers mental health care to bring a sense of home to nationals and internationals.

Before we meet

Practical information before you start your therapeutic process so we can establish the boundaries of our relationship.

Here-and-now

The bridge between the different forms of human suffering we face and the therapeutic support to alleviate it.

Our next

Once your need for support has been addressed, you can decide which setting seems most appropriate for you to begin your journey to feeling better.

Where

Psychology within Reach
Vuurvlindersingel, 403
3544 DB Utrecht
Netherlands

Phone +31 30 636 8981 info@psychologywithinreach.com
Mon.-Fri. 9 am – 7:30 pm